“I have been married for 7 years now and we were happy together until a year ago. My husband got so busy with his work that he would come home very late at night, sleep and then go off to work early in the morning. On the weekends too he would rarely have time for me and our kids. I was emotionally very sad and I needed someone to talk to, share my problems with, share the happiness when anything good happened. Yes my babies are there to keep me busy but what about me? One day I met a very old flame at a supermarket while shopping for diapers. He knew I was a married woman and so was he. We started talking and there was so much in common. We chat everyday now and I know I am emotionally cheating on my husband. But the weird thing is, I do not even feel guilty.
My husband is sweet and caring but when it comes to sex, he doesn’t last for more than 5 minutes. He doesn’t foreplay either and we have had tons of fights over this. Sexually I am a frustrated woman. He does not even care that I am frustrated, he just looks at his own sexual appetite. A few weeks back I met an old friend who has been my 3 am pal always. He is single and well a very attractive man indeed. I never paid much heed to his looks but now he turns me on. I met him, we talked and I asked him if we could do it. He was taken aback for a moment but then gave in. We meet every 4-5 days to just have sex and he cares how I feel. He cares about my needs, what makes me writhe in pleasure and everything that I expected from my husband. I now feel happy when I come home. I feel balanced now.
I kissed my best friend
I have been married for 3-4 years and it was a love marriage. We are happy together. My best friend is a man and we have literally grown up together since the age of 5. Last year, he and I got drunk on a weekend and my husband had gone to the loo.I don’t know what happened, but I impulsively kissed my best friend. He was shocked and so was I, but I was more taken aback by the fact that it felt amazing! As if why had I not done this earlier? He responded after a few more seconds and sparks flew! My husband came in and we acted like nothing had happened. But after a few more days, when I had gone for lunch with my friends, my bestie was there too. We decided to never address this ever again and continued as we were going. This is a secret my husband shall never know.